Sometimes
people get too concerned about what is happening in the lives of others.
Most, like me, mean well and only want to help or offer suggestions to fix a
problem for a friend or loved one. After all, I'm a logical woman
and a pretty decent problem solver. A little help can be a good thing.
It's nice to offer someone an alternative idea or a neutral
assessment of their issue.
Occasionally
though, you're just butting in where you don't belong. Taking on
other people's burdens can cause you a lot of stress. You might
need to keep
your mouth shut instead of volunteering yourself to fix every
imperfect situation that comes across your path. The
challenge is to know when to help and when to let people muddle it
out for themselves. A wise man once told me that as a rule, folks
don't like to be told what to do and how to do it.
I've
collected a few good quotes that remind me to think before I jump in there. Feel free to share.
I hope these make your life happier, reduce conflict, and maybe give you a laugh!
“Don’t
sign on for more problems than you must. Resist the temptation to
involve yourself in other people’s zones of expertise and
responsibility.” ~ Twyla Tharp
“Don't
concern yourself with things that don't concern you. If it's not
your business, don't make it your burden.” ~ Author Unknown
“He
missed an invaluable opportunity to hold his tongue.” ~ Andrew
Lang
“Do
not condemn the judgment of another because it differs from your
own. You may both be wrong.” ~ Dandemis
“Just
remember, there's a right way and a wrong way to do everything and
the wrong way is to keep trying to make everybody else do it the
right way.” ~M*A*S*H, Colonel Potter
“Don’t
interfere with somethin' that ain’t bothering you none.” ~ Old
Wild West talk
“Make
somebody happy today. Mind your own business.” ~ Ann Landers
“If
no one asked you for advice, keep your thoughts to yourself.” ~
Author Unknown
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