The
new year is always a time for me to clean. I'm taking down holiday
decorations, tossing things I won't use, and making our home fresh
and cozy for the winter. It's a new start and a clean slate.
One
of my resolutions each year is to get rid of clutter. I try to use
the one thing in, one thing out rule. But then I watch Antiques
Roadshow and see someone who kept two party invitations from the
1930's that are now worth $25,000. Nevertheless, it's easier now
that I'm retired, because I am more aware of the things I use and
love.
Other
resolutions are to evaluate what works and what doesn't in my life,
which adventures I will pursue this year, and who will be along for
the ride. It's not always physical items; people and situations can
weigh me down as well. Several years ago, I found this quote to help
me remember that I choose my own path.
"Surround
yourself with people who make you happy.
People
who make you laugh,
who help you when you're in need.
People
who genuinely care.
They
are the ones worth keeping in your life.
Everyone
else is just passing through."
~Karl
Marx
I
apply this statement to people, things, and habits. They all come
and go, and have a purpose for a time. Why would I hang on to
something that has outlived its usefulness? Or some negative person
who is just passing through my life? I only want what brings me joy and inspires me. I
want to keep what matters most to me.
